Feedback Thoughts

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I read the articles 8 Things Students Should Do When They Make a Mistake and Silence the Critical Voices in Your Head. The advice for students in the first article seemed spot on, particularly in finding a balance in your life and being willing to ask for help when you need it. It's very easy to fall into a rough spot, but not want to bother other people with it. It's sometimes difficult to see how understanding and helpful people can be when given the opportunity.

The article about silencing your own critical voice really struck a chord with me. I used to be extremely self critical. I always felt that I wasn't as smart people told me I was, and I would tear myself apart over any perceived weakness. It took a long time to develop the self confidence necessary to accept honest criticism graciously. However, I think it's important to present criticism kindly, and to give positive feedback in addition to the negative. When I am in a position to give feedback, I make sure to only say something if it is helpful, and if I can say it in a way that doesn't cause undue distress.