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DEAR ABBY:
I have a problem with my cousins. I am the son of a king, the eldest of one hundred. I should be the heir to the throne, but my father has named my oldest cousin his heir instead. It's not fair. My cousin doesn't deserve to be the king and neither do any of his brothers. They are the sons of gods, for one thing, not the sons of kings. Besides, even though their father used to be king, my father is older. By all rights, the kingdom should be mine! Also, all of my cousins are jerks, especially Bhima. When we were children, he would torment me and my brothers mercilessly. It was cruel. He's incredibly strong, so it was difficult to fight back. He would mock us, kick us, and laugh at us. Once, while we were training as warriors, one of his 'practical jokes' ended with the death of my best friend. Bhima never even apologized! He claims that the death wasn't his fault, even though it wouldn't have happened if Bhima hadn't been playing such a mean spirited prank. Everyone acts like my cousins are the most wonderful people, but they're cruel and selfish. I keep getting conflicting advice about what I should do, so I'm asking you. Would it be right for me to kill my cousins? They don't deserve the kingdom, and they don't deserve to live.
HOPPING MAD IN HASTINPURA
Dear HOPPING MAD:
No, it is right for you to murder your cousins. I'm very sorry that they were cruel to you when you were children. Perhaps if you talked to them you would be able to work out your issues. Does Bhima know how much pain you felt when your friend died? You should try to work out your issues with your cousins peacefully. You may not feel that your cousin deserves to be king, but killing him wouldn't make you deserve to be king more. You should sit down and have an open and honest conversation with your family. If you show yourself to be a good man, maybe you can show your cousins how to better themselves.
Author's Note: In the Mahabharata, Duryodhana is the eldest of the Kauravas. He is the instigator in the conflict between the Kauravas and their cousins, the Pandavas. Duryodhana hates the Pandavas, especially Bhima, with a passion. He strongly believes the he should be the heir to the throne for many reasons, and is angry about the pranks that the Pandavas, especially Bhima, played on he and his brothers throughout their childhood. I wanted to express Duryodhana's point of view a little bit and try to explain some of his hatred. I created an incident in which a friend of Duryodhana's is killed during one of Bhima's childhood pranks. I thought this would help to explain the strength of Duryodhana's hatred. While reading the Mahabharata, I didn't feel that Duryodhana's hatred was sufficiently justified. I had Abby give the advice that should have been given in that situation. If the Kauravas and the Pandavas had respected each other, talked to each other, and been open with each other they might have been able to settle their differences.
Bibliography: Mahabharata by Narayan. Web Source.


